You have spared no expense in planning your wedding favors vjenčanja.Svijeća are lit and everyone is still drying tears from her eyes. You have thanked everyone for coming. You have to pay the band and shook hands with all two hundred plus guests, pretending to remember all of them. Everyone has thanked the elegant wedding favors, and commented on how beautiful the bride je.Uvodi bring the car around and was finally winding down. Now it's time for a night you've been waiting on for a lifetime. Romantic candlelight, soft music and a chilled bottle of wine waiting for you, your new wife and her mother.
everything comes to a screeching halt. Did I just say that her mother will be a night with you and your bride on the wedding night? Well, I think that, perhaps we can make the spare bedroom. Wrong again, because the mother in law will be in the bedroom with you. Now you know that I must be drunk as a skunk A., B. or insanity as a pinhead. Well you are wrong on both accounts. I am describing the wedding custom of several villages in Africa. In all complete seriousness, there are tribes that are customary for the bride's mother, your mother in law to spend the night with a newly married couple, and it gets worse. Her job is to make sure that your new wife know what to do to make you happy ... in bed.
It may not be the bride's mother. In certain situations, it may be the groom's mother or in the absence of the bride or the groom's mother, a female village elder. They literally sit there and direct the bride what to do and watch to make sure it's right. To make matters worse, if your wife is not a little too well, the guards will report to the village elders that she was not a virgin, the wedding will be canceled. Talk about some strict rules. You hope that your new bride is not a natural in sex, or you could lose it.
in another small village close to Borneo, there is a wedding tradition for which I simply do not believe that the stomach. During the first 72 hours after the wedding, to avoid bad luck, the newly married couple must not urinate or have a bowel movement. To ensure that you do not cheat, the couple watch day and night. They just may have small sips of water and a few bites of food every now and then. I do not know about anyone else, but I can not go 72 hours without urinating, even if my life depended on it. Shoot, at my age, I'm lucky if I can get through a two-hour movie without relieving me. In fact, do not go to the movies because of this, choosing instead to wait for the DVD release of the film. Making it through one night without going to be hard enough and want to go on for three nights? My bubble will burst.
this strange wedding traditions are quite strange, but they are deeply steeped in the tradition of these traditions and love followed to the letter in most cases. I just can not imagine how I would be embarrassed that my mother was standing right over my wedding bed directing traffic. I think it would be even worse that my mother works.
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